I carried UNTIL DEATH YOU WILL ARRIVE (True Story)
Hopefully this story into learning material for good friends who are planning to get married, who had been living in a marriage, but especially for friends who are shaking in their current marriage. Trust me ... God was reprimanded and will remind the integrity and sanctity of marriage through the story you are reading this. I carried UNTIL DEATH YOU WILL ARRIVE One evening when I returned home, my wife serves dinner to me, holding his hand I said: "I want to tell you something." My wife is with me and sat next to while enjoying dinner in peace. From the look on his face and I knew he was being harbored a burning inner wounds. Suddenly I do not know how to start a conversation from where. The words came out of my mouth it feels heavy. But I have to let my wife know what I was thinking. I want a divorce between us. I then ventured to discuss it calmly. It seems that She was not bothered at all with the conversation, instead She turned and asked me quietly, but why? I refuse to answer. It makes me really angry. She threw choptiks in hand and started yelling at me, "You are not a real man." That night we did not greet each other. He kept crying and crying. I knew that he wanted to know the reason behind the desire for a divorce. But I can give her a satisfactory answer; "She has caused lost my love for Jane (women my savings). I do not love her anymore. I'm just sorry for her. " With a deep sense of guilt, I made a statement of consent to a divorce that She can have a house, a car and 30% of our corporate profits. She's really angry, tore the paper. Woman who has spent 10 years of his life with me has now become a stranger in our house, especially in my heart. I apologized to her, to the time that has been wasted for 10 years with me, for all the effort and energy that was given to me but I can not take back what I had said to her that I really love. Finally she cried loudly in front of me in which I myself hope to see happen to her. Cries for me to have any meaning. My desire to get divorced in my heart and mind have been round and I had to do it at that time. The next day, when I returned home I discovered he was a little late to write something on the table in our bedroom. I do not eat dinner but went straight to sleep because of the irresistible sleepiness due to tiredness after a day of meeting with Jane, my ideal woman at the time. When she woke up I saw she was still sitting at the table next to her as she continued writing. I ignored her and went back to bed. The next morning she handed over the terms of the divorce she had written to me since last night, sHe did not want nothing from me, but it only takes a month before the divorce to treat each other as husband and wife in real sense. She asked me in a month that we both had to fight to live a normal life like husband and wife. The reason is very simple: "Our son will undergo exams in the month that she did not want to bother him with our divorce plans." I agree to the terms to which she gave. But she also asked for some additional requirements as follows: In the span of one month's time, I should recall how at the beginning of our marriage, I had to hold him while remembering back when our wedding party. sHe asked me to hold her for a month it from the bedroom to the front door in the face every morning. I thought she was crazy. However, let me try to make our last days have been lovely to meet the request passed to me for our divorce. I told Jane (women my savings) on the terms offered by my wife. Jane laughed out loud to hear it and think that it is something strange and meaningless. It's up to me what a demanding but certainly he will face divorce we have planned, says Jane. We no longer have sex like husband and wife during those times. So when I carried her out to the door of our house on the first day, we did not feel anything. Our son saw it and clapped behind us, and say, wow ... mama papa was holding. The words of our son really make cuts in my heart. From the bed to the front door and I held her as she brought her hands tightly hugged me. He closed his eyes and said softly: "Do not tell this to our son's divorce." I put her down in front of the door. He then went to the front of the house to wait for the bus that would take her to his workplace. While I drove alone to my office. On the second day, both of us do it more easily. He docked embedded in my chest. I can smell and feel the fragrance of her body and clothes. I realized that I had not noticed this woman carefully for a long time already somewhat. I realized that she was not young any more like it used to. There are small spots on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage has made it that way. For a few minutes I tried to reflect on what I've done to him during our marriage. On the fourth day, when I picked her up, I felt a sense of closeness / intimacy that began back broke my heart in the deepest recesses. These are women who have given and sacrificed 10 years of her life for me. In the sixth and seventh day, I began to realize that our relationship as husband and wife began to grow again in my heart. I do not want to say these feelings to Jane (the woman who will marry after our divorce). I think it would be better because I just wanted to qualify that she asked that I will be able to marry the woman I love now, the Jane. I noticed one morning when she was about to choose the clothes she was wearing. sHe tried some of them but did not find anything suitable for her. He then little complaining, all my clothes are too big for my body feels now. I then realized that she was getting thin, and this is why I can easily carry on those days. Suddenly the fact it was a stab in the heart and in my feelings ... She had harbored a lot of wounds and bitterness in her heart. I then held out my hand and touched her head. Our son suddenly appeared and said, "Dad, it's time to store and carry the mother." For him, picked her up and took her out to be something important in her life. My wife approached our son and hugged him lovingly. I turned my face to the opposite direction for fear of his wife and child situation will affect and change my decision to divorce at the last moment to qualify. I then took it with both hands, walked from our bedroom, through the room to the front door. Her hands tightly coiled around my neck gently and very romantic like a husband and wife whose life is full of peace and harmony with one another. I hugged her, and it was like our wedding day 10 years ago. But now the light body makes me sad. On the last day, when I carried her with my hand, I felt very heavy to move even one step ahead. Our son had gone to school. I hugged tightly and said, I've never seen so much so that our marriage has lost intimacy / familiarity with each other. I went alone to the office vehicle .... I jumped out of the car without locking the door. I was so afraid of not getting anything to make me change my mind. I went upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said with her. Jane looked curious mingled astonishment, and then touched my forehead with her finger. Is your body heat? sHe says. I ducked and pulled her hand from my forehead. Sorry, Jane, I do not want a divorce. Home life was boring because she and I did not interpret in detail every moment of our lives, not because we did not love each other. Now I realize that since I picked her up and took it every morning, and especially back memories of our wedding day I decided to continue to hold it until the day of our death can not be separated one from the other. Jane was surprised to hear my answer. sHe slapped me and then slammed the door loudly and began to wail in grief mixed with angry towards me. I ignored it. I walked downstairs and drove my car to go away. I stopped at a flower characters along the way, I ordered flowers for my wife. Flower girl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote: ". I'll carry you every morning until death" Evening when I arrived home, with flowers in hand, beautiful smile on my face, I ran up the stairs of my house, just to meet with my wife and give her flowers when she hugged to start something new in our marriage, but what I found ? My wife died in the bed that we have been together for 10 years of our marriage. My wife has been battling a malignant cancer that had attacked him for months without my knowledge because I was busy having an affair with Jane. My wife knew that he would die within a relatively short time due to malignant cancer, and she wanted to save me from whatever negative view of our children may be born as a reaction to stupidity as a husband and father, especially the crazy and stupid I plan to divorced women who have sacrificed for ten years to maintain our marriage and our children ... ---- At least, in the eyes of our son - I'm a loving father and dear .... so the meaning behind my wife struggle. Any small event or thing in life is affecting our relationship. It is not dependent on money in the bank, a car or whatever they are called properties. All of this can create opportunities to achieve happiness but it is very certain that they can not give their own happiness. Husband- is wife one another for the sake of it. Therefore, always and forever be a friend to your partner and make little things for him to build and strengthen relationships and intimacy in married life. Have a happy marriage. You can definitely get it, man! If you do not want to share this story, certainly will not happen to you in everyday life. However, we wanted to share this story to a friend your relatives, then one thing is for sure that God is using you to save the marriage of others, especially those who are now having problems in their marriage. Greetings and prayers from friends to friends who were married or who are planning to get married, *******Duc in Altum *** ***
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